Comedian Robby Hoffman opens up about her marriage to Gabby Windey, rising career, Netflix stand-up special, and the lessons love and success have taught her.
Comedian Robby Hoffman is riding a wave of personal and professional fulfillment—and she’s not shy about saying it out loud. At 36, Hoffman believes she’s living one of the best chapters of her life, both on stage and at home with her wife, former Bachelorette star Gabby Windey. During a recent appearance on the Good Guys podcast hosted by Josh Peck and Ben Soffer, Hoffman offered a refreshingly honest look into her marriage, her career momentum, and the mindset that’s shaping her future.
A Life That Finally Feels Right
For Hoffman, success isn’t just about achievements—it’s about perspective. She spoke candidly about looking back at her younger self and feeling proud of how far she’s come. After years of grinding in comedy, she’s now enjoying the kind of life she once only imagined. That sense of gratitude is evident as she balances her rising career with a deeply fulfilling relationship.
This year alone, Hoffman landed a recurring role on the Emmy-winning series Hacks and prepared for the release of her Netflix stand-up special Wake Up, directed by John Mulaney. The special marks a major milestone, especially after Hoffman also appeared on Mulaney’s Netflix show Everybody’s Live With John Mulaney. Still, despite these accomplishments, she remains grounded and focused on enjoying the process rather than chasing constant validation.
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A Marriage Built on Real Partnership
Hoffman and Windey married in January after a Vegas ceremony followed by making it legal—a detail Hoffman shared with her trademark humor. As they approach their first wedding anniversary, Hoffman says the experience has been nothing short of joyful. While many people warn that the first year of marriage can be the hardest, Hoffman says their reality has been the opposite.
She believes the toughest phase was actually their first year of dating, when they moved quickly and worked through major life adjustments early on. Now, she describes their marriage as a sense of “being home,” a partnership built on understanding, acceptance, and shared momentum.
Clear Choices About Family Life
When it comes to having children, Hoffman doesn’t hedge or soften her stance. She’s clear that expanding their family isn’t something either of them wants. She explains that for same-sex couples, having kids often requires deliberate medical and logistical steps—and for them, it’s not a path they feel drawn to. Instead, they’re focused on nurturing their relationship, careers, and the life they’re actively building together.
Slow Success and Creative Freedom
Unlike overnight success stories, Hoffman’s journey has been steady and intentional. She describes her career as a “slow and steady wins the race” process—years of writing, performing, and refining her voice. That pace has allowed her to enjoy her lifestyle, which includes creative freedom, late mornings, and the ability to focus on stand-up and writing without constant pressure.
According to Hoffman, Windey understood this about her from the start. No matter the fame, money, or circumstances, comedy is who Hoffman is at her core. That mutual understanding has created a strong foundation where neither partner feels the need to compete or compromise their identity.
Celebrating Gabby Windey’s Rise
Hoffman doesn’t just support Windey—she’s one of her biggest champions. As Windey continues to expand her presence from nursing to reality TV, podcasting, and acting, Hoffman sees something truly unique. She believes Windey’s appeal goes far beyond being a reality star, pointing to her authenticity, adaptability, and natural screen presence.
Hoffman even compared Windey’s cultural trajectory to Kim Kardashian’s, noting that both were initially underestimated. Where some see fame as accidental, Hoffman sees clarity and intention. With Windey’s recent win on The Traitors, Hoffman says she’s already witnessed the talent the rest of the world is just beginning to recognize.
Growth Through Love
Marriage, Hoffman admits, has taught her lessons she didn’t expect. Known for her quick wit and constant humor, she’s learned that she doesn’t always need to be “on.” Being with Windey has helped her understand the value of quiet moments, emotional balance, and letting go of the need to entertain everyone all the time.
She describes this phase of life as one of refinement—where love allows growth without pressure. Having a partner who loves her fully also helps lighten the emotional load, making space for personal evolution alongside professional ambition.
A Chapter Defined by Contentment
What stands out most about Hoffman’s reflections is her sense of contentment. In an industry driven by hustle and comparison, she’s found peace in authenticity, partnership, and pacing herself. Her story is not just about success, but about alignment—between love, work, and self-acceptance.
As Hoffman continues to thrive on Netflix, television, and the stand-up stage, one thing is clear: she’s not chasing happiness anymore. She’s living it.
